Hi friends!
Airport run! |
With the Jesuit novitiates at work |
Mike and I have continued to work with the
three Jesuit novitiates in our office this month. Unfortunately Thursday is
their last day – we have had a lot of fun working with them and getting to know
them. Like I mentioned in my last post, we are holding after school tutoring
programs in different neighborhoods every day as this month’s project. It has
been really great to be out and about in Mount Sinai every single day working
and making new friends. In the coming weeks Mike and I will have to work out
how or if we will continue with the program. On top of working, the Jesuits have
brought a lot of life to the office. Our spare time in the office we passed
doing everything from chatting about our distinct cultures, their Jesuit
formation process or Wilo giving me salsa dance lessons (which is still
definitely a work in progress!).
Any unoccupied time I’ve had in the office
I’ve spent reading Poor Economics – A
Radical Rethinking of the Way to Fight Global Poverty by Abhijit Banerjee
and Esther Duflo. I was really captivated by a presentation given by Duflo at
Holy Cross last year and brought the book along with me to Ecuador. It covers
varies topics like health, hunger, microcredit, incentives, businesses, aid
programs, and more. For me it has been extremely interesting to read while
living in Mount Sinai. I witness the statistics given in 3-D form everyday in
my daily life and hear similar testimonies as given in the book during casual
conversations with neighbors. I’m learning a lot!
One last update from my Hogar de Cristo
work – last week I met with the leader and a few women who collaborate with the
Hogar de Cristo microcredit office. I’ll be meeting with a larger group of women
this week to learn more about the process and how I may be able to accompany
them or provide workshops on finance topics that would be helpful.
Dinner with Arbolito |
This past weekend we again spent with the
Arbolito community. First, Friday was our all Rostro de Cristo day of
reflection. After a day of reflection, journaling, and logistics, Megan (our
current In-Country Director) kindly made us all a lasagna dinner! We shared a
great meal and then spent the rest of the night playing 2 vs. 2 soccer on our
little patio. The next day we all woke up early to construct two Hogar de
Cristo cane houses together with the 3 Jesuit novitiates out in the campo.
House Build 1 |
House Build 2 - Completed Home |
House Build 3 |
House Build 4 - With the family |
With the (huge!) help of a Hogar employee,
8 of us constructed the Hogar home in exactly 5 hours! We dug the holes to put
the poles in, then laid the flooring, then put up the pre-constructed walls,
and then finished with a tin roof. When we climbed down after hammering in the
last nails the family had already begun to make this house a home. Streamers
hung, a table was set up, the little kids were blowing up balloons, and the
parents and uncles set up benches. It was a really great day and a unique
opportunity to build a relationship with a family whose house we built.
Night with the novitiates |
Yapangacho |
I’ll end this post with a funny (well now)
story about my attempts to slowly let go. I wrote in a previous post about my
current focus on embracing this feeling of lack of control in nearly every
aspect of life. This week a group of women were in my office working with
another employee on an upcoming workshop. Upon finishing they asked me for my
help. The women were taking a course on haircutting at Hogar de Cristo and
needed heads to practice on. With some hesitation I agreed – how could I say no
when 6 women were standing with smiling, pleading faces. We get to the salon
across the Hogar property and I learn that these women actually do not know how
to cut hair yet. One woman was put in the middle as the example and the
“professor” taught how to cut hair as all the women furiously took notes. As
you can imagine, a little bit of anxiety rose in me. I never realized the
control and importance I placed on my own physical appearance. What came to
mind as I sat there for the first few minutes of silence as she began cutting my hair was
our reflection during all RdC on simplicity. Simplicity can also be interpreted
as letting go – of all those things that prevent us from being fully present to
or building honest relationships with ourselves, our neighbors, and our God. So
in that moment, I decided to let go of what may happen to my hair and I engaged
in conversation with the woman, learning all about her life and her hopes for
starting her own salon one day to support her family. It was a difficult and
honestly stressful morning, but I did learn something from the experience. And all
ended well – the “professor” went around at the end and fixed everybody’s hair.
Another interesting day at the office…
Love and miss you all,
Colleen
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LaLa